Noma yimuphi umuntu ozelwe unombala wezinwele ezithile, futhi kuya ngezici eziningi: ifa, ubukhulu be-hormone yowesilisa noma nowesifazane emzimbeni, inani le-melanin ngisho nendawo yokuhlala. Kwakukholwa njalo ukuthi umuntu onombala othile wezinwele unezimpawu ezithile zomlingiswa. Muva nje, ososayensi baqale ukuthambekela emcabangweni wokuthi umbala nezinwele zixhumene ngokuqinile. Kungenzeka futhi kanjani ukunquma uhlobo lwemibala yezinwele?
Kukhona indlela yokusebenza kwengqondo umuntu angagculisekile ngayo yintukuthelo yakhe noma isiphetho sakhe angayishintsha ngokuguqula umbala wakhe wezinwele. Impela, sonke isiguli sesibili esivumile kulokhu saqala ukubona izinguquko ezihlukile kuhlobo lwaso nendlela yokuziphatha. Ngakho-ke, ukuguqula isithombe ngokuqinile, kufanelekile ukucabanga ngokuthi uzothola ziphi izici ezintsha ngethoni yezinwele entsha.
Ohlangothini obumnyama
Kukholelwa ukuthi abanikazi bezinwele ezimnyama banesitoko esikhulu ukuqina, kwesinye isikhathi baphenduka isihluku futhi ukungabi nhliziyo okucacile, ngaphezu kwalokho, bahlakaniphile kakhulu futhi bayaphambuka. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, umbala wemfihlakalo, isiphetho nothando, namandla namandla umlingiswa - inhlanganisela ebabazekayo yowesifazane. Ngenxa yalesi sizathu, amadoda akuvamisile ukuba angahlukani nobuhle obunezinwele ezimnyama. Ngemuva kwakho konke, abantu abanamandla babukeka kakhulu. Ngasikhathi sinye, okukhohlisayo nokuzilunga, isifiso sokuhlala singcono kakhulu, sibathoba kaningi, kepha ukubonakaliswa kwale mizwa kungabonwa kuphela ngabantu abasondele kakhulu abamukele umbuthano wabakhethiweyo. Kukhona ezimbalwa, njengomthetho.
Abantu abanezinwele ezimnyama banesipho semvelo somhleli, othuthukisiwe we-intuition, intando yokuwina, i-mindset yokuhlaziya kanye nekhono lokuhola abantu. Ama-brunette aphumelela kakhulu, akhetha i-psychotherapy, ipolitiki, ubuciko noma inkolo njengomsebenzi wawo oyinhloko.
Iqiniso elithokozisayo: Amaphesenti angama-70 amakhosikazi abantu abacebile kakhulu abanemali yabo engaphezu kwezigidi eziyinkulungwane bangama-brunette.
Othandweni, abesifazane abanjalo abanaso isineke, bafuna, futhi kwesinye isikhathi bayingozi, ababekezeleli ukungezwani, bakwazisa ukuthembeka nokuqina kakhulu, naphezu kokungafani nobuntu babo. Ngaphezu kwakho konke alungele amadoda anezinwele ezimhloshana noma ezinsundu, kepha nge-brunette, impilo kungenzeka iguqukele ekuxabaneni okuphakade.
Kukhanya - kukhanya?
Kunezinganekwane eziningi ezihlotshaniswa nombala wezinwele owenziwe ngabesifazane ngokungathi awukho omunye umbala. Ama-Blondes kuthiwa abhekene ne-frivolity, umngcele onobuso obungenalutho, ubumnene kanye ubumnene besimilo, ukuzwela, ukukhononda kanye nokuba sengozini futhi, okucasulayo kakhulu, uhlobo lohlobo lokuphambanisa oluhlangene nokutholakala. Ngokuvamile, lawa onodoli besifazane abanesikhumba sobumba, amehlo angenangqondo nokungabikho kwemicabango engathi sína.
Kodwa-ke, ezimweni eziningi, lesi isithombe nje esakhiwe ngokucophelela, ngosizo lwaso kulula kakhulu ukulawula amadoda anjalo aqinile, aqinile futhi aqonda konke. Kuzobuqili bokukhwabanisa, ama-blondes awalingani, futhi umbono ojwayelekile uthi: "Blonde, uzothathani kuye?" bayisebenzisa ngobuciko.
Njengoba kunezindaba nezinganekwane, konke kucacile, futhi manje ngesimo sangempela sama-blondes "athambile". Ama-Blondes akwazi kakhulu ukufunda, ahamba kahle kakhulu kwizifundo zesayensi nemathematics, ngaphezu kwalokho, ahlukaniswa yikhono lokuqonda kahle abantu futhi anganqikazi "ukuhambisa" umuntu ongafuneki, ngenkathi eqhubeka nokumamatheka okuhle. Iningi labesilisa, likhohlisiwe yizingqinamba ezamukelwa ngokuvamile, bayamangala ukuthola, esikhundleni se-goldfish ekhonondayo, i-toothy pike engaphuthelwa eyayo.
Ngasikhathi sinye, abesifazane abanezinwele abalungile bahlukile ubuhlakani obukhuluukuthamba nobuntu bokuziphatha, amandla okuzibonisa emphakathini. Njengoba bahlakaniphile impela, baheha abantu kalula kubo, futhi amadoda ahehwa kalula ukukhohlisa kobuhlobo nokutholakala okubonakalayo.
Eqinisweni, ama-blondes wemvelo angena ngqo kwiBhuku elibomvu - lo ngumbala wezinwele osengozini ezophela maduze nje.
I-Light brown - umbala wokuthembela nokufudumala komndeni
Abesifazane abanezinwele ezilungile bahlukaniswa yisimo esizolile, esinengqondo, bangahlala bethembela, ngaphezu kwalokho, babekezelela kakhulu abanye. Lawa mantombazane enza omama nabafazi abahle kakhulu, angabadlulisi abahle, abangane abathembekile nabethembekile. Ukubizwa kwabo ukunakekela abanye, ngakho-ke bavame ukukhetha umsebenzi wobudokotela, wezengqondo noma wothisha, lapho bavame ukuphumelela khona. Isici samantombazane anjalo uthando lokuhleleka, ngesinye isikhathi iba yingozi. Ukudinwa okusendlini kungonakalisa ngokuphelele imizwa yabo. Bancamela ukwenza izinqumo ezibalulekile bebodwa, ngaphandle kokubekezelela ingcindezi evela ngaphandle, bayasola impela futhi bayathinta, baphenduke kabuhlungu ezitatimendeni ezingezinhle ababhekiswe kubo.
Abanikazi bama-curls amnyama amnyama banobuqili impela, bayazi ukuthi bangakhohlisa kanjani abantu, banokuvelela okukhulu futhi banamakhono amahle. Benza osopolitiki abahle kakhulu nabalingisi.
Yonke imiqondo eshokolethi
Abanini bezinwele ezinsundu bazolile futhi abamelana nengcindezi, imnandi kakhulu ekuxhumaneni futhi i-multifaceted, bangatholakala ngokuphila futhi bangaziwa kuze kube sekupheleni. Banobuntu obunobungane kakhulu futhi bavulekile, akuwona amanga futhi abafisi ukukhuthaza ubuqili phakathi kwabanye, bayazikhandla futhi banomthwalo wemfanelo. Ngasikhathi sinye, abesifazane abanezinwele nsundu bahlala njalo bemfuna into entsha, ethokozisayoNjengomthetho, bathanda futhi bayakwazi ukupheka, bathande ukuhamba. Banikela kubhizinisi elisha ngentshiseko, njengobudlelwano obusha, sebethole okuthile okungokwabo, bangakhohlwa ngomhlaba wonke, le mfanelo ibenza baphumelele emisebenzini yabo nasekuphileni kwabo siqu, emndenini.
Abesifazane abanezinwele ngokwemvelo ezine-chocolate tint bangabukeka bahle kakhulu, kepha ngokuvamile babeka ukubukeka kwabo endaweni yesibini, noma babeke endaweni yesithathu ngemuva kwezimpawu zokuqonda nezokomoya, okuthi noma kunjalo, kungabavimbeli ukuthi bahlale bethandeka emadodeni. Into esemqoka ukuthi ungahambeli kude kakhulu futhi ungahlali enkampanini yabo ngokuthi "isoka lakho" noma uzakwabo, ungabi nethemba lempilo yomuntu.
Amantombazane nabesifazane abanezinwele ezifana namalangabi okwenziwe imizimba bahlala bephapheme. Ngesinye isikhathi, abaningi abebomvu bahlupheka ezandleni zesonto, njengoba babevame ukubhekwa njengabathakathi, abaphelezeli bakaDeveli. Ngandlela thile, uma unquma uhlobo lombala wezinwele, ubufakazi obuhlaba umxhwele kakhulu obukhuthaza ubukhona bokuxhumana bukhona yilezo zintokazi ezinezinwele ezibomvu. Ama-curls omlilo abonisa ngokuphelele imvelo yabo yokuqhuma.
Umbala wezinwele ezibomvu ubulokhu uhlotshaniswa nobuthakathi, okusho ubuqili, ubuhlakani, amandla, isisa nokungahambisani, kanye nomqondo omuhle kakhulu, kodwa ongahlali njalo.
Ngisho namantombazane amancane anale mibala yezinwele ahlukaniswa yisifiso sobuholi, namahlaya awathola ngokuphelele aqinisa futhi abukise ubulukhuni besimilo sabo futhi andise izinsizakusebenza zawo ezincane zamandla. Kubiza kakhulu ukulimaza abomvu - bona ukuphindisela nokuphindisela, futhi angalinda isikhashana, yize enomsindo.
Ngokwezocansi, awukwazi ukuthola umlingani ongcono, onesibindi, akaneliseki futhi uyadlala, yize eyisidina futhi angashintsha kalula abalingani uma efuna. Izifiso zabo zihlala zisezingeni lokuqala kubo, ngakho-ke bakhetha ukwenza bodwa, abawulaleli umbono weningi. Ukuntuleka kwekhono, inkani nokungakwazi ukwenza izinqumo eziyekethisayo kuvimbela kakhulu ukuthi bangajabuli empilweni yomndeni, kepha esikhathini esiningi abasazidingi.
Ubuchwepheshe obulungele kakhulu ama-redheads yilawo ezihambisana nokwakha kunoma yikuphi ukuboniswa kwayo. Abacabangi ngemidwebo emibi, abakwazi ukumelana nengcindezi futhi ababoni abaphathi, futhi benza konke okusemandleni ukugqama esixukwini, bathande izenzo ezigqamile, ezinyantisayo futhi ababekezeleli abesilisa ababuthaka. Kepha amadoda uqobo azithola ekhanga kakhulu, futhi isici sokungacabangi sodwa sithakazelisa intshisekelo yawo.
Ngokufunda ukubona uhlobo lombala wezinwele, ungafunda izinto eziningi ezithokozisayo ngomuntu. Noma ngabe owesifazane efaka izinwele zakhe, umthunzi okhethwe nguye ukhuluma ngesifiso sokuthola izimfanelo ezithile, aguqule isiphetho sakhe, futhi azinake yena. Ngaphezu kwalokho, umbala okhanya ngokwengeziwe nokungalindelekile, yilokhu kunakwa kakhulu akudingayo.
Ividiyo mayelana nokuthi umbala wezinwele ubathinta kanjani umlingiswa.
Izici ezijwayelekile zezinwele zezinwele
Iningi labazali lizama ukuthola ukuthi umlingiswa wesikhathi esizayo wengane nguhlobo lwezinwele zakhe noma zabafundi. Abanye abantu bazama ukwenza lokhu lapho behlangana noma bexoxa. Ososayensi bathole ukuthi umthunzi wemvelo wemicu ungasho lukhulu ngomuntu. Kuyiqiniso, onke amantombazane angawodwana, kepha ezinye izici zokuziphatha zincike ngqo kumbala wemvelo wama-curls.
Ukuncika komlingiswa kumbala wemicu:
- Ama-Blondes ajabule ngokwengeziwe emvelweni, abukeka emnene futhi engazethembi. Amadoda ngokuzithoba afuna ukuwavikela, awazungeze ngokunaka kwawo. Amantombazane anjalo abukwa njengabenenhliziyo ethokozayo, enobuhlakani, enobuntu.
- AmaBrunette abukeka eqinile futhi engenakugwenywa. Bahlukaniswa umlingiswa onesibindi, ongacabangi futhi onobudlova. Amadoda athola izintokazi ezivuthayo kangaka sexy.
- Abesifazane abanezinwele ezinsundu ngokwemvelo banokuthokoza, bathanda izinkampani ezinomsindo, zihamba ngokwemvelo. Ama-curls abomvu asetshenziselwa ukuthi athiwe ngabathakathi abakwaziyo ukuntekisa ngama-curls abo aphakeme ngesibonisi sethusi, okuchichima igolide.
- Izimpunga ezimpunga ezinomthunzi wegundane zinikeza amantombazane umlingiswa othule, ozolile, onomlingiswa othambile. Lawa makhosikazi azolile, alinganiswa, athembekile.
Amanye amantombazane ahlala azama ngombala wezinwele, eshintsha amathunzi ngokuya ngemizwa yawo. Lokhu kusho izinhlangothi ezahlukahlukene zemvelo, ukusesha okungapheli kwe- "Mina" yabo yangaphakathi. Isimo samantombazane anjalo siyashintshashintsha, asiqinisekile, futhi siqinile. Isimo sezulu singashintsha yonke iminithi, sigcina umdlwenguli ebambene njalo.
Ukuncika kwezimilo kumbala wezitshudeni
Umthunzi wamehlo, njengombala wemichilo, ungasho okuningi ngomuntu. Lokhu kuyiqiniso ikakhulukazi uma izingane zikhanya kakhulu, zingenalutho, zimnyama. Abesifazane abanamehlo aluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka noma abanamehlo amnyama bahluke kakhulu kubalingisi, ekuziphatheni, ekubonakalweni.
Kuyisiko ukugqamisa lezi zimfanelo ezilandelayo:
- Izintombi ezinamehlo aluhlaza zinenkani, ziyaphikelela, ziyasebenza. Bahlukaniswa i-adventurism, imfihlakalo, ukuba khona kwemikhuba yobuholi.
- Abesifazane abanamehlo aluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka banemvelo yothando, bathanda ukuphupha. Kodwa-ke, izintokazi ezinjalo zivame ukwehlukaniswa ngonya nokubanda.
- Ubuhle obunamehlo ampunga bazi ukuthi bungaqedwa kanjani, bahlakaniphe. Banobuhlakani, bezolile, banesifiso sokuvelela.
- Abesifazane abanezinwele ezimnyama nezinamehlo ansundu bayakwazi ukusebenza, ukucabanga, ukwenza. Banamandla impela, bathanda inkululeko, futhi bakhululekile.
- Abanikazi bamehlo ansundu, ama-hazel, ansundu ansundu kunalokho banesizotha futhi banamahloni. Banokuthambekela okulula, isizungu esihle.
Amantombazane anezinhlobonhlobo zemithunzi yamehlo kusuka ku-grey-green kuya ku-brown eluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka kanye no-blue-tintshi. Ukukhanya okugqamile okuchichimayo kunika abanini babo ubugqi nesibindi, izingane ezikhanyayo ezinama-murky washouts athembisa ukubanda, ukunganaki.
Izici ze-brunette
Umbala wezinwele wama-brunette ungahluka kusuka kokuluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka kuya koshokolethi omnyama no-brown. Umbala wamehlo kwabesifazane abanjalo uvame kakhulu ukuba nsundu, umnyama noma udwebe ngombala obomvu onsundu. Umsindo wehlukaniswa yizici zamandla, umoya ophinyiselwe phezulu, ongaguquki.
Izici eziyinhloko zama-brunette:
- ubulili
- isizungu
- ukuba khona kwamakhono obuholi,
- ukuphikelela
- nolaka oluthile
- umsebenzi
- silwela impumelelo,
- ukuzethemba.
Izibonelo ezicacile zezimpawu zobuntu phakathi kwama-brunette izinkanyezi ezifana noMonica Bellucci, uPenelope Cruz, uDemi Moore.
Ukuhlukahluka kwesimilo
Umbala wama-curls kuma-blondes akufanele ube mhlophe. Ukuba khona kwethoni yegolide, i-ashy, grey, i-pearl noma yesiliva kufakwe ngaphakathi ngombala onsundu okhanyayo, ukugcwala kwe-graphite kuvunyelwe. Umthunzi wamehlo ama-blondes uvame ukukhanya: grey-bluu, luhlaza okwesibhakabhaka, nsundu wegolide, nsundu okhanyayo. Isici sibonakaliswa ngokuguquguquka, ukuphupha, ukungenami.
Izici zesimo sama-blondes:
- ubuqili
- ukuba khona kwenjabulo
- ezothando
- ukuzibandakanya
- imfihlo yokuhlaziya,
- ukuthembeka
- ukubanda
- ukukhohlisa okuthile
- isifiso senguquko.
Izibonelo ezicacile zezimpawu zomlingiswa wama-blondes zingabantu abadumile abanjengoMarilyn Monroe, uBritney Spears, uCharlize Theron.
Izici zomlingiswa wowesifazane onezinwele nsundu
Umbala wama-curls kwabesifazane abanezinwele ezinsundu ungahluka kusuka esifubeni esikhanyayo kuye kweyethusi noma nsundu yegolide nge-tint ebomvu. Umbala wamehlo amantombazane anezinwele ezibomvu uvame ukuba luhlaza, onsundu, ansundu. Intukuthelo yezilo ezibomvu iphelele, ithokozile, izolile.
Izici zesimilo sowesifazane onezinwele ezinsundu yilezi:
- ukuzibandakanya
- ukuzola
- isivinini se-shutter
- amandla okuyekethisa,
- ukusebenza kanzima
- amandla okuzijabulisa futhi ujabulele impilo,
- amandla.
Abamele intukuthelo enjalo phakathi kwabesifazane abanezinwele ezinsundu nguJulia Roberts, u-Angenila Jolie, uMila Kunis.
Ochwepheshe bezengqondo bakholelwa ukuthi ukulungisa kabusha imicu ngombala omusha kunikeza umlingiswa ezinye izici. Le ndlela izokhanga kulabo abafuna ukukuguqula kancane isimo sabo esiyingozi noma esingathandeki.
Kodwa-ke, ukuguqula umuntu wesifazane othukuthele noma ohlambalazayo abe ngumuntu othandana naye akusebenzi ngokucaciswa okujwayelekile.
Akuncike kuphela kuthoni lezinwele, umbala wabafundi noma wesikhumba. Kufanele ushintshe isimo sakho sengqondo kwabanye, amaphutha wokuziphatha alungile.
Amehlo ansundu
Abanikazi babo bahlukaniswa ngokuxoshwa, imizwa, isidingo sokushintsha okuvamile kwemibonakaliso. Abantu abanamehlo ansundu bavame ukuhlukaniswa ngokwanda kwemizwa, ukuzwela ngokweqile, ukungazinzi kohlelo lwezinzwa. Benza abaculi bokudala, amakhosi, ababhali nezimbongi. Abantu abanamehlo ansundu baqonda kahle abanye futhi ngokwengxenye bayazi ukuthi bangayisebenzisa kanjani ngezinhloso zabo. Le ndlela umlingiswa womuntu angavezwa ngayo ngombala wamehlo. IBrown irises ifakazela ubungako obukhulu nekhono lokusondela kunoma yiliphi ibhizinisi ngobuhlakani, ngokungajwayelekile.
Abantu abanjalo bavame ukuqaphela ubuqili obahlukahlukene bobuciko, banentando enkulu namandla engqondo angaguquki. Yize bethi bangabantu abathandeki ngokweqile, abanye babo bayakwazi ukuzimela futhi ngeke banikeze inhlamba ezihlotsheni nakubangane. Ungahlala uthembele kubo esimweni esinzima futhi uqiniseke ukuthi ngeke bahluleke.
Amehlo amnyama
Lo mbala utholakala kubantu basempumalanga kaningi kaningi kunaseYurophu. Isikhumba esimnyama, ukukhanya okukhanyayo kuvumelana ngamehlo amnyama avuthayo. Omunye uthanda ukubukwa okunjalo okunothando nokukhanga, ngakho-ke bafuna umlingani walolu hlobo. Uhlobo lwabantu ngombala wamehlo lunganqunywa ngokuya ngezici ezitholakala esihlokweni.
Abantu abanamehlo amnyama babonakala ngokufisa okuthile kobuholi, intelezi emangalisayo. Abesifazane abanamehlo amnyama babukeka banothando futhi bayabukeka. Bangaqonda ngokuphelele ukuthi omunye umuntu uzizwa kanjani futhi ngasikhathi sinye futhi akabekezeleli.Abantu abanjalo abathandi futhi abafuni ukuhlala endaweni eyodwa isikhathi eside, badinga ukuguqulwa kwesikhala nokuvela. Ukuhamba kaningi, ukufuna izixazululo ezintsha ezintsha kuyingxenye ebalulekile yempilo yabo.
Amehlo aluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka
Abantu abanamehlo aluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka bangadonsela ukunakekela kubo uqobo futhi, abanye, njengabo. Lo mbala uvame ukuqhathaniswa nesisa esingenamkhawulo, inhlonipho nokubonisa uthando. Abaphethe ngamehlo aluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka bavame ukubonakala besengozini kakhulu futhi bezwela kulabo abaseduze nabo. Banombono wokuqamba nokukhula okuthuthuke kakhulu, bangacasulwa nganoma yisiphi isizatho.
Ngakho-ke, ekuxhumaneni nabo, kunconywa ukusebenzisa amabinzana angahunyushwa ngokungenhloso ngokuqapha okukhulu. Akuwona wonke umuntu ovuma ukuthi uhlobo lwabantu ngemibala yamehlo lunganqunywa, kepha abanye bathi lolu lwazi lubasiza ekubambisaneni nabanye.
Amehlo ampunga
Kwesinye isikhathi azibonakali zikhanga njengoluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka noma mnyama. Aziculwa yizimbongi ezinkondlweni zazo, azinconywa ngabangane nangabajwayele. Kepha lo umbala unesici esihle kakhulu. Abaphethe ngamehlo ampunga cishe bahlala benobungane futhi benaka abanye. Bahlukaniswa ngokugcina isikhathi, ukwethembeka, ukuqina kanye nesimo esihle. Uhlobo lomuntu ngombala wamehlo ngesithombe cishe akunakwenzeka ukuluthola, kodwa uma uxoxa naye imizuzu embalwa mathupha, kuzovele kucace ukuthi usebenzisana nobani.
Amehlo aluhlaza
Eqinisweni, lokhu kufakwa kombala kwe-iris ngendlela yayo emsulwa akuvamile kakhulu. Imvamisa kunezinhlobonhlobo ezahlukahlukene nezinxube: grey-green, green-brown. Kepha uma emvelweni wakho kunomuntu onale mibala yeso, singasho ukuthi unenhlanhla enkulu.
Amehlo aluhlaza akhuluma ngesimo somuntu sokuxhumana ngokomzwelo, ukuthambekela kwakhe kokuhlanganyela ezimpilweni zabanye, ezothando nasekuboneni uzwela. Le ndlela umuntu angahumusha ngayo isimilo somuntu ngombala wamehlo. Ama-irises aluhlaza angaqhathaniswa kuphela nemfihlo evulekile yokuba.
Amehlo aluhlaza okotshani
Lo mthunzi ubonakala njengabantu abazwisisayo nabahlelayo abazibekela imigomo ephezulu empilweni futhi balwele ukuyifinyelela. Bayazi ukubala nokuhlela kahle izinto, ukusabalalisa amandla abo ekuqalisweni komsebenzi ngamunye othize. Isimo somuntu ngombala wamehlo (okuluhlaza okotshani) sinqunywa esifundweni esinemininingwane se-physiognomy. Uma ufuna ukwakha ubuhlobo bokuthembela nomuntu onamehlo anombala othile, kubalulekile ukwazi ukuthi lo muntu uyakwazisa ukwahlulela nokugcina isikhathi kwabanye. Ubuntu nemizwa yothando akuyona into ehlukile kuye, noma kunjalo, gxila kumphumela udlala indima enkulu.
Amehlo ansundu aluhlaza
Lo mbala ubonakalisa ubuntu obungaziwa. Kukhona ukuqala okubili kubo: banekhono emacaleni wokuhlela, bazibekela imigomo engathi sína, kepha ngasikhathi sinye bazwela kakhulu futhi basengozini. Sesikushilo ukuthi kungenzeka ngezinga elithile ukubona isimilo somuntu ngombala wamehlo. Ama-irises ansundu aluhlaza anikeza abantu abahlukaniswa ubuntu obuqhakazile nobumsuka. Bahlala belwela ukuya ngezinga elithile noma kwelinye ukuze baziveze. Banesifiso esikhulu sokufisa izifiso zabo nokuzimisela kwabo ukunikela isikhashana nsuku zonke kulokhu. Abanikazi balombala we-iris bayayazisa induduzo yomndeni, yize belwela inkululeko. Bafuna ukuzizwa bedingeka, kepha bagwema ukudinga abanye abantu, ngawo wonke amathuba bagcizelela ukwaneliseka kwabo. Lezi zingcweti zangempela, izazi zokusebenza kwengqondo nabantu abahluke ngokuphelele. Nakho konke okushiwo, ngamunye wabo uhlala eyindoda nje enamaphutha nezinzuzo zayo.
Amehlo e-Chameleon ajwayelekile kunakho konke lokhu okungenhla. Abanikazi babo bangaqhosha ngezici ezihlukile: ama-irises aguqula umbala wawo ngokuya ngesimo sengqondo, imizwa, ngaphansi kwethonya lemizwa. Isimo somuntu ngombala wamehlo ama-chameleon kunzima kakhulu ukuwazi. Kwesinye isikhathi kubukeka sengathi kusuka kumuntu onjalo akunakwenzeka ukwazi ukuthi yini okufanele uyilindele ngomzuzu olandelayo. Ubuntu obuqhakazile, ukuguqulwa okuvama kwemizwa kufaka ukubamba kwamehlo njengokuqunga isibindi, ibhizinisi, noma, ngakolunye uhlangothi, buthaka, buthaka.
Umuntu ngokwakhe angahle angawuboni lo mkhuba anawo kusukela azalwa. Uma amehlo eshintsha umbala, lokhu kuqashelwa ikakhulukazi abanye. Impela, kusukela ohlangothini, njengoba besho, awukwazi ukuzibona. Kepha kubangani nakulabo abasondelene kakhulu nabantu abanjalo, kuboniswa yonke imbonakalo yokugcwala nokuhlukahluka kwalesi sici esimangalisayo. Uhlobo lomuntu ngumbala wamehlo, ukuhambisana kwakhe nabanye - lezi zihloko zithakazelisa kakhulu. Njengoba usuziqondisile, ungaqonda ukuthi lokhu kuvumelana kanjani noma lowo muntu angakwazi ukuxhumana nomhlaba omzungezile.
Ngakho-ke, kufanele kukhunjulwe ukuthi, noma ngabe yiluphi umbala we-iris, into esemqoka okufanele icatshangwe lapho ukhulumisana nabangane nezihlobo ukukwazi ukubona ubuntu nobuntu kubo. Kumele kukhunjulwe ukuthi phambi kwakho ungumuntu ofana nawe uqobo, ngezimpawu nemikhuba yakho ehlukile. Uhlobo lwabantu ngombala wamehlo lunqunywa ngokungahle kwenzeke uma uke wafunda ukutolika kwazo zonke izinketho zokufaka umbala ku-iris futhi futhi uyazi umuntu izinsuku eziningi. Ngaphandle kwalokho, kunengozi enkulu yokukhohliswa nokwenza umbono ongaqondile ngomngane wakho.
Ungawuthola kanjani umphumela kulesimo sombala wamehlo womuntu?
Umbala wamehlo unikezwa umuntu kusukela azalwa futhi angashintsha okwamanje lapho thina ngokwethu sishintsha. Namuhla ungashintsha kalula futhi usheshe umbala wamehlo ngamalensi wokuxhumana, kodwa kunezikhathi eziningi lapho kuba noshintsho kumbala wemvelo wamehlo. Njengomthetho, le nto ihlobene ngqo nezinguquko ezithinta isimo sengqondo nokuziphatha.
Ososayensi baphetha ngokuthi umbala ogqamile ngokwengeziwe futhi okhanya ngokwengeziwe, izifiso zabantu ziyobonakala, kugcwaliswe amandla futhi kuthathe isikhundla sempilo esisebenzayo. Ngakho-ke, ukukhanya okukhanyisa umithunzi wamehlo, kuyathandeka futhi kube mnene umphefumulo womuntu.
Ukuqina nokugqama kombala ku-iris kukhombisa kahle isiqalo sobuntu. Imvelo emnene ibonakala ngemithunzi efudumele yamehlo, futhi ebandayo ikhuluma ngomlingiswa oqinile futhi ophikelelayo.
Amehlo ansundu akhanyayo
Abantu abanamehlo ansundu akhanyayo ama-theorists, hhayi odokotela, kuyilapho kungenziwa nje, bavilapha, kuyathinta kakhulu, kuyabonakala, futhi kwesinye isikhathi kuvaliwe.
Lobuntu bangama-pragmatists abasebenza kanzima abalwela ukuhlala bodwa, kanti abazibekezeleli izeluleko nesiqondiso. Ababambe ngamehlo ansundu akhanya bathande ukucabanga ngomongo wokuba. Ngokuvamile, ukuthambekela kwabo kobuvila kuphezulu kakhulu kangangokuba kudlula yonke imikhawulo.
Kepha, ngaphandle kokuvilapha kwabo nokungeneka, laba bantu banekhono eliyingqayizivele lokwazi ukushesha nokwenza imisebenzi eyinkimbinkimbi kakhulu, bonisa umkhiqizo oncomekayo, ngasikhathi sinye abakhathazi.
Ukusuka ngaphandle kungahle kubonakale sengathi abantu abanamehlo ansundu akhanyayo athambile futhi ayanambitheka, kepha bayathanda ukwenza konke ngendlela abafuna ngayo futhi abacishe bavumelane nemibono yabanye.
Amehlo aphuzi
Kuyaqabukela kakhulu ukuthi abantu abanombala wamehlo ongajwayelekile kangako, onjengephuzi. Lobuntu bunamathalente akhethekile ngempela, abukekayo futhi anobuciko, anobuqili futhi anobuhlakani, ngakho-ke kalula nje ngingathola indlela yokuphuma kunoma yisiphi isimo.
Onamehlo aphuzi ngaso sonke isikhathi angabangani abahle futhi abathembekile, futhi akukho mqobo ongabavimba uma othandekayo esenkingeni futhi edinga usizo lwabo. Kepha abantu abanjalo bavame ukukhohlisa futhi bengaqondakali, ngakho-ke bangaba ngabaphikisi abayingozi.
Lababantu ngeke neze basamukele isimo lapho othile ezobeka imithetho yabo siqu. Abazilawuli imizwa kahle, bazizwa bengabodwa, ngamanga nangamanga ngamazwi asemhlanganweni. Amadoda anamehlo aphuzi aba ngabavikeli abanesibindi nabangane abathembekile kwabakhethiweyo babo.
Amehlo aphuzi we-Tiger
Lo ngumbala wamehlo omuntu ongejwayelekile, ongabizwa nangokuthi yinyoka. Abantu abanomthunzi wamehlo onjalo banomqondo obukhali futhi ovelele, balindelekile kakhulu futhi bangempela.
Kukholelwa ukuthi abantu abanalombala wamehlo athile bane-intuition eyenziwe kahle, ngakho-ke kunzima kakhulu ukubadida. Ubuntu obunjalo bangamakhosi abo, futhi baqaphele kakhulu abantu abangabazi.
Ngenxa yobuciko babo obuhle kakhulu nokuguquguquka kwemvelo, kalula futhi bamane baphume kunoma yiziphi izimo ezingezinhle nezingxabano, kepha ungabeki umuntu wabo engcupheni. Abantu abanjalo bayaphindisela kakhulu futhi bayaphindisela, ngakho baba izitha eziyingozi kakhulu.
Amehlo aluhlaza-oluhlaza okotshani
Abantu abanombala wamehlo ongajwayelekile futhi othakazelayo banesimo esihlukile ngokuphelele sokuthanda. Lezi zinhlaka zobuntu zikhuluma kakhulu ngezothando namaphupho, kuyilapho isici sazo esiyingqayizivele sobuqili obunamandla kanye nabelungu. Ngasikhathi sinye, abanikazi balombala wamehlo baphathwa ngesihluku nokubanda.
Amehlo aluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka
Abantu abanamehlo aluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka bayakwazi ukukhombisa imizwa eqinile. Uma bathandana, khona-ke ngaphandle komcabango oqhubekayo bagijimela othandweni, bangasinaki izeluleko noma imigwaqo yezihlobo. Kodwa-ke, uma bengamthandi umuntu, bebezozonda ngokushesha okukhulu nangokuqinile. Kepha laba bantu akuvamile ukuthi bakhawulelwe kuphela ekubonakalisweni kwemizwa engemihle, njengoba behamba kalula nje baye ekulweni okudumazayo.
Abantu abanamehlo aluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka bayathanda ukungena ezingxabanweni nasezingxabanweni, ngoba bathola injabulo engenakuchazwa ngenqubo uqobo, ngoba kubaluleke kakhulu kuwo wonke umuntu osondele kubo ukufakazela ukulunga kwabo nokuqwashisa kunoma yini.
Izimpikiswano nezingxabano - lesi yisici sobuntu obunamehlo aluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka, ngenkathi sisetshenziswa kuwo, ngoba okokuqala bazoholwa kuphela ngabaphikisana nabathile, kepha hhayi ngomqondo ojwayelekile.
Amehlo chameleons
Lokhu kuyisithunzi samehlo esingavamile kakhulu okungewona umbala othile, ngoba lesi isici esiyingqayizivele somuntu othize. Abantu abanjalo bangashintsha umthunzi wamehlo ngenxa yezizathu ezahlukahlukene - ngokwesibonelo, ngokuya ngesimo sabo, izimo noma imvelo. Akukho luhlaka olucacile lapha.
Abaphethwe ngombala wamehlo onjalo bathambekele ekushintsheni okubukhali kwemizwelo, kanye nokwehluka kwezifiso zabo. Iqiniso ngukuthi wonke umthunzi uzokwethula ukulungiswa okuthile ezicini ezithile zobuntu.
Abantu abanamehlo angenamizwa bayakwazi ukuhlangana ngokushesha futhi kalula ezimweni ezahlukahlukene zokuphila, bamane bazivumelanise nezimo ezintsha, ngokuqondile ngaphandle kokuzwa ukungakhululeki. Lobuntu buvumelana kakhulu nezenzo zabo, njengenhlangano kukho konke, kepha, yize kunjalo, bavame ukwenza ngokungafanele futhi ngokungazenzisi, okubenza bangalindele ngokuphelele.
Ukuthola eminye imininingwane yokuthi umbala wamehlo ubathinta kanjani umlingiswa, bheka lapha:
